Citizen Spotlight: Coalition Builder Ada Salami

To view the interview on the Vigilant Positivity YouTube channel, click here.

During chaotic political times, it’s easy for citizens to assume a dystopian future awaits. But such seismic shift are common throughout history and poses the opportunity to build a pro-topian future. So says Ade Salami, program director for Pro-democracy Political Coalitions at Democracy 2076. Founded in 2023, the organization works long-term to change our constitution, political culture, and political parties.

Ade most recently served as a senior policy aide for two Minneapolis City Council members and as a lobbyist at Park Street Public, where she led bipartisan lobbying efforts on policy and funding at the state, local, and federal levels. She received her BA from the University of Minnesota.

Transcript of interview

Martha Engber: Hello, Ade!

Ade Salami: Hello! How are you today, Martha?

Martha Engber: Very good. Thanks for joining me.
As I understand it, Democracy 2076 aims to ward off authoritarianism in America. For those of us who have only known democracy, what are the signs of authoritarianism?

Ade Salami: Of course. I want to start by slightly reframing that. Democracy 2076 wasn’t created specifically to stop authoritarianism. It was created because something in our democracy feels broken to many people. It doesn’t feel effective, responsive, or representative.

When people feel that way, they’re more open to strongmen and shortcuts. Our work is really about helping people imagine and build a democracy that actually works for them. When that gap isn’t filled, authoritarianism tends to fill it. That said, I think many Americans have had a real-world crash course in what authoritarianism looks like, even if they don’t always call it that.

One resource I often reference is Protect Democracy’s authoritarian playbook. It identifies tactics like corrupting elections, including attacks on the legitimacy of free and fair elections. The Big Lie is a clear example. It encouraged people to doubt the 2020 election results.

Another tactic is quashing dissent, using state power to silence criticism. What happened with Jimmy Kimmel last year is a good example. There’s also politicizing independent institutions, such as appointing leaders of institutions like the FBI or the Federal Reserve based on loyalty rather than expertise or the rule of law.

President Trump’s ongoing fight with Jerome Powell at the Fed, or his attacks on James Comey, are examples. Another tactic is scapegoating vulnerable communities. We’re seeing that nationally with ICE (Immigration and Customs Enforcement), including escalating violence, which is also part of the authoritarian playbook. Normalizing political violence creates unrest and fear.

There’s also the spread of disinformation and propaganda. COVID stands out for me, when President Trump was one of the biggest spreaders of COVID-related misinformation. Those are some of the key ways authoritarianism shows up.

Martha Engber: What’s interesting is that everything you mentioned is what Democrats often say about Republicans, and Republicans say about Democrats. Each side claims the other is corrupting politics, spreading disinformation, and behaving badly.

So is authoritarianism reflected in that level of polarization? Does it pit citizens against one another and make the other side look like the villain?

Ade Salami: I don’t think that dynamic itself is part of the authoritarian playbook. I do think it’s a side effect. It shows up as authoritarianism begins to take root.

One important thing to remember is that authoritarianism doesn’t come from just one side. In the U.S., especially over the last decade, we’ve seen clear examples from the right, but that doesn’t mean it can’t come from the left. Overlooking that is concerning.

Martha Engber: That finger-pointing is interesting. Depolarizing that dynamic is something your organization and others are working on, but cutting through misinformation is difficult. What is Democracy 2076 doing in that regard?

Ade Salami: Much of our focus is on helping Americans build connections, relationships, and coalitions beyond the political binaries they’re used to. A lot of politics is rooted in a false binary. The work I’m focused on right now is about disrupting that comfort and expanding people’s ability to engage in unlikely partnerships as a way to build connection and make progress.

Martha Engber: Your organization also promotes the idea of a pro-topian future rather than a dystopian one. Dystopian means everything is bad, while pro-topian suggests hope. Can you explain that idea and why people might find a pro-topian future hard to imagine? And why we seem to dwell on dystopian futures? They dominate books, TV, and movies.

Ade Salami: I like the definitions you gave. Utopia is perfect and unrealistic. Dystopia is The Handmaid’s Tale, where everything is falling apart. Pro-topia sits in the middle. It’s a realistic, incremental path of continuous improvement. Things are getting better, even if they’re not perfect.

The term comes from Kevin Kelly, the editor of Wired magazine in 2009. A pro-topian future is not fantasy or collapse, but a pathway where society becomes more fair, functional, and humane. Our goal isn’t to sell people on a single pro-topian future, but to co-create one and move away from a nihilistic mindset where nothing matters.

We want people actively imagining what a better future could look like and what it would take to get there. It’s not about prescribing the destination. It’s about creating space for people across differences to imagine a better future for themselves and work toward it together. When people feel nothing can change, that’s when they disengage.

Dystopian futures are easier to imagine because they’re essentially today, just worse. They’re built around conflict, scarcity, and winners and losers. Our brains are wired for that. We have a built-in negativity bias, so those futures feel familiar. We’re always scanning for threats.

Martha Engber: Because if we don’t pay attention to threats, we could be killed. It’s our animal instinct.

Ade Salami: I agree.

Martha Engber: In support of deterring authoritarianism and promoting an achievable, brighter future, Democracy 2076 has three programs. The first is Imagining 2076, which fosters imagination and focuses on media that shows what a pro-topian future looks like.

The second pushes for a new constitution, including 68 amendments identified by past convention delegates to shore up democracy in the U.S., which is fascinating, but a topic for another show. The third is your program, which looks closely at political coalitions. Can you define what a coalition is, as opposed to a group or partnership, and tell us more about the program?

Ade Salami: Of course. When we say “coalition,” it’s not just a group. We’re talking about three things: who’s in it, what they believe, and what divides them from other groups. What are the wedge issues? If you look at politics, for example, in Congress, we already use this language all the time. We talk about the Squad, the Blue Dogs, MAGA, the Tea Party. Those are factions, but in many ways they’re also coalitions. The same thing exists among voters, organizations, and movements. It’s not something that only happens with politics and elected officials.

What makes this moment different is that the coalitions are shifting. They’re realigning along the three axes I mentioned. The people in our parties are changing, the issues that divide them are changing, and the ideas holding coalitions together are changing. That’s part of why so many people feel politically disoriented right now. You find yourself agreeing with people you were never aligned with before, people you thought you had nothing in common with.

At the same time, you may clash with people who were once your allies, people you were always on the same side as. That can feel unsettling, but it’s also where opportunity exists.

When coalitions start to move, a lot more possibilities open up. You can build majorities that didn’t exist before. You can move legislation that’s been stuck for decades because there’s now a group willing to coalesce around a shared cause.

On the flip side, there’s also risk. Some of the changes we’re seeing are pulling people in a more authoritarian direction.

My program is about naming what’s changing, tracking what new coalitions are forming and what they could accomplish, and also watching where democratic norms begin to break down so we can intervene before it’s too late.

Martha Engber: As you were talking, I kept thinking about a political earthquake. And it’s not just happening in our country, it’s global. When an earthquake hits, people get scared. They duck, they take evasive action, and the instinct is to follow the one person saying, “Follow me, I know what to do.”

That’s essentially the appeal of authoritarianism. You go to the person who insists they know what’s going on. But you’re also saying that at the same time, there’s opportunity. That’s what people don’t always see. Things are chaotic, everything feels like it’s rolling around, and people miss the opportunity in that. So is the idea that people like you can help surface that opportunity?

Ade Salami: I think so. And I think this moment is especially ripe for that.

When you look at voter identification over the last several years, the number of people identifying as independent has grown significantly. Many people say they no longer feel aligned with a party or that they don’t have good options. A common refrain is that they feel like they’re choosing between two evils.

Your earthquake analogy fits. Authoritarianism can emerge as the figure who promises certainty and action. And the reason that’s appealing is because the system people are being moved through doesn’t feel like it works. No one seems in charge. No one seems to have a direction. When that’s missing, people attach themselves to whatever feels most certain, and someone who insists they can fix things feels certain.

Martha Engber: That’s fascinating. When I was researching your organization, I noticed your website says American political coalitions realign roughly every 30 years, and that we’re living through another realignment now. What was the last realignment? And how long do these typically take? Are we talking a year, a decade? And why 30 years?

Ade Salami: That’s a great question. There’s actually a lot of debate among political scientists about when the last realignment even happened. Some point to the 1980s, others to the 1990s. One moment that’s often used as a marker is 1994, the so-called Republican Revolution, when Republicans took control of Congress for the first time in about 40 years.

That period also solidified the South as a Republican stronghold and brought cultural and religious issues to the center of politics in a new way.

What’s important to understand is that these political shifts don’t happen all at once. You don’t wake up one day and everything is different. They unfold slowly over time, and they’re much clearer in hindsight.

A big part of my work is asking whether we can see these shifts as they’re happening and shape them, rather than only writing about them later in history books.

As for the 30-year rhythm, I don’t think it’s a magic formula. My best guess is that it roughly aligns with a generation. Every couple of decades, new voters come in. They have new leaders, new experiences, different values. Their culture is different, their priorities are different, and eventually politics has to reorganize around that energy. That’s why those timelines tend to cluster around 30 years.

Martha Engber: That’s interesting, because when people think about coalitions, they usually think Republicans and Democrats, the two-party system. And because of laws passed by both parties over the years, it’s almost impossible for a third party to emerge. So how do you change the two main parties? Neither one seems to listen to the people within them, and a lot of people are unhappy.

Of course, there are cheerleaders on both sides, but many people want both parties to change. So how do you actually do that?

Ade Salami: I have a lot of ideas. I don’t know that I have definitive answers. One thing I think about is the growing number of independent voters. Ideas like open primaries, where candidates have to campaign on issues because they can’t rely on party loyalty alone, become really important.

I also think about recent campaigns, like Zohran Kwame Mamdani, the new major of New York City, where a coalition was built by addressing people’s needs and focusing on what they shared as priorities, rather than party labels.

I think we’re entering a moment, especially with younger voters, where the two parties not only don’t appeal to them, but don’t feel representative. That’s what makes this moment ripe for realignment. I don’t think the current configuration is sustainable. We’re already seeing signs of that.

I wouldn’t be surprised if we moved toward a multiparty future. I wouldn’t be surprised if more people stopped identifying with any party at all and voted issue by issue. All of those possibilities are on the table.

Martha Engber: That’s very interesting. I consider myself an independent now, and I believe strongly in the common ground movement, the broad middle of America, the large majority who are unhappy with both parties and want to come together around shared values. It will be interesting to see how this unfolds.

Can you explain more about your Foresight cohort of 14 leaders? Who are they? What political perspectives do they represent? And why did you intentionally seek such a broad range of viewpoints?

Ade Salami: That’s a great question. The Foresight cohort helped us write and stress-test the research in our reports. What we were trying to understand was the type of political realignment we’re living through right now.

There’s a lot of good writing about voter groups, like Latino voters or college-educated voters, but by the time those books or reports come out, the shifts have often been happening for years.

We wanted something closer to real time. So we asked: who is in constant contact with large numbers of people right now? Who is seeing changes before they show up in polls or headlines? That led us to leaders of large, membership-based organizations, people working with cross-ideological communities, across regions, identities, and backgrounds.

We’re also in a very different media environment than we used to be. Political beliefs used to be shaped in a very top-down fashion. I don’t think that’s how they work anymore. Now people’s political beliefs are shaped by social media, YouTube, WhatsApp groups, TikTok. You can’t just read The New York Times and say you know what people think. That’s why we wanted to bring people together and track different communities: Jewish voters, Asian voters, rural voters, urban voters, people who are watching extremism.

Those are all Americans, and they’re all part of the coalitions forming in this moment. They’re ultimately the ones who will shape what our parties look like over the next few decades. We didn’t want pundits. We didn’t want people with a very set idea of how things should work who want to impose that on others. We wanted to be intentional about finding people who are in their communities, talking to their neighbors, and seeing change happen in real time.

Martha Engber: I think it’s worthwhile to go back for a moment. When you say political viewpoints used to be formed from the top down, that meant there were three networks on TV saying certain things, and it funneled down to viewers. Newspapers worked the same way. But with social media, anyone at the bottom can push a message upward.

Ade Salami: Exactly. One hundred percent. You can go on TikTok today and see a video with 4.1 million views from someone you’ve never heard of before.

Martha Engber: And that person might not even be American, which I understand is now happening on both sides politically, with parties outsourcing messaging. Very interesting.

On your organization’s website, I meant to ask about the report you mentioned. Which report are you referring to, so I don’t get it wrong?

Ade Salami: There are reports for all of our programs, but the one I’m referencing is the inaugural report for the Pro-Democracy Political Coalitions in 2076 program. It was released in November of 2025.

Martha Engber: I was also fascinated by the five scenarios your organization outlined on how political parties might realign over the next 30 years. Can you explain those scenarios, and how your organization might help stimulate democracy even if both parties become authoritarian, which is one of the scenarios?

Ade Salami: To start, when we do this work, we hear a lot about short time frames: two-year grant cycles, four-year election cycles. But changes to democracy, authoritarianism, or party realignments happen over decades. That makes it hard to know whether progress is actually happening.

If you look at our current national political environment, Donald Trump came to power in 2016, Joe Biden won in 2020, and then Trump won again in 2024. That can be confusing. People ask, does this mean Americans want authoritarianism? Are they supporting it more now than in 2016? How do we make sense of that?

Progress isn’t linear. There’s backsliding. Globally, progress toward democracy has never been linear.

There’s always a push and pull between democracy and authoritarianism. Understanding that helps us recognize that chaos in the information environment doesn’t mean progress isn’t happening at the same time.

The scenarios were designed to help us look 30 years ahead and imagine how parties could evolve. One scenario has both parties authoritarian. Another has both parties pro-democracy. Another imagines a multiparty bloc. The goal isn’t to predict which one is most likely, but to understand the full range of possibilities, identify the ones we clearly don’t want, and think about how to intervene early to prevent them.

Martha Engber: So don’t wait to find out.

Ade Salami: Exactly. There’s been a lot of focus on right-wing authoritarianism, but the risk is ignoring the possibility of left-wing authoritarianism. That could emerge if people aren’t paying attention. We included that scenario because we felt it was being overlooked, even though it’s absolutely possible.

You also asked how we stimulate democracy if both sides become authoritarian. That’s not really how we think about using the scenarios. The goal is to avoid that outcome altogether. We want to identify warning signs and intervene before it happens.

The reason the scenarios look 30 years out isn’t so we can prepare for them once they arrive. It’s so we can look at today, determine which direction we’re headed, and decide whether that’s a direction we want. If it is, we reinforce it. If it isn’t, we intervene.

Martha Engber: What does intervention actually look like? From the perspective of the average American? We already have laws that reduce opportunities to change our government, and that expand presidential power and deter third parties. What does intervention mean in practice?

Ade Salami: That’s a great question. Intervention isn’t about huge, abstract forces beyond our control. There are individual actions we can take today that either strengthen or weaken democratic defenses. It’s about making informed choices.

For each scenario, we identified signposts we’re already seeing, or might expect to see, that indicate which direction we’re heading. We also offered recommendations showing how smaller groups can have outsized influence. We made recommendations for local government, for community organizations like food banks, and for different sectors of society where people can step in and have a real impact.

I think it’s important for everyday Americans to understand that. I’ll use a simple analogy. At the beginning of the year, people make New Year’s resolutions, often about weight loss. Losing 50 pounds sounds overwhelming. Most people think, I don’t know if I can do that.

But if instead you start with something smaller, like walking 5,000 steps a day, it feels achievable. You don’t focus on the entire 50 pounds. You focus on the next step and see where it gets you.

Martha Engber: There are a lot of really good ideas out there. But as you know, we live in a place where the noise is so high that getting good ideas out is difficult. So what does it look like for your organization to say, “Okay, here are our ideas,” and actually get them out to the public, to people like me? Is that the coalition-building part? Are you working with groups to methodically disseminate these ideas through social media?

Ade Salami: It’s less about us dispersing our ideas and more about focusing on people who want to collaborate on making effective change to ensure a representative and responsive democracy, and figuring out whether we have tools or information that can support them in that work.

For example, with our scenarios work, there may not be many organizations looking 50 years into the future. But there are organizations that have identified issues they care about that are emerging now.

Helping them understand that there are small actions their members can take today, actions individuals can take today, that have long-term impact, is often something they’re interested in. We’re happy to help them on that journey.

Martha Engber: As I mentioned before, I’m a member of Braver Angels, which operates in this space, and even there, just getting ideas out is a big challenge.

Ade Salami: One hundred percent. Braver Angels is a great example. Much of their work focuses on helping people bridge difference and disagreement. What I think could be really powerful is encouraging people to have conversations about issues that aren’t politicized yet.

Many of the issues we introduce in our 17 spectra aren’t yet locked into the current political binary. Someone on either side of the aisle could land on the same side of one of these spectra. Introducing those concepts and encouraging conversation across difference is often the first step.

Martha Engber: Your organization created an interactive tool that shows where people fall on 17 emerging wedge issues. For those who may not know, a wedge issue is a natural division that political parties exploit to intentionally divide Americans.

For example, your site asks if you see education as a social equalizer or a status enforcer; whether you lean toward identity-centered politics or issue-centered politics; whether you tend toward gender-role traditionalism or gender-role fluidity. Who came up with that idea?

Ade Salami: We created the interactive tool because we were really struck by More in Common’s perception gap research. It shows that people tend to believe those with opposing political views think much more differently than they actually do. People often exaggerate how extreme their opposition is.

That insight made us curious about emerging wedge issues and the assumptions we make about what people who align with us believe, and what people who don’t align with us believe.

We also wanted to show people that some of their beliefs differ from others within their own party. Some Democrats don’t agree with other Democrats on certain issues. Some Republicans don’t agree with other Republicans. We wondered what would happen if we applied that insight to emerging wedge issues.

Many people assume everyone in their party agrees with them on things like education, identity, or gender. That’s often not true. Some of the biggest disagreements you have are actually with people on your own side. We thought it would be powerful for people to discover that for themselves.
To realize, “I’m not as aligned with my party as I thought,” or, “I have unexpected things in common with people across the aisle.”

One piece of feedback we received was that many of these wedge issues feel like false binaries. And honestly, that’s the point. Political divides are simplified into binaries. We’re just used to the old ones. This tool helps people see that many of the lines we fight over are constructed, and the reality is far more nuanced.

Martha Engber: I’ve done programs where people talk about perception gaps. You see the other side as completely evil, and they see you the same way. But when you actually talk about issues, you’re often fairly close in belief.

Ade Salami: Exactly.

Martha Engber: It’s kind of crazy to see that happen.
Does the tool give a scale, like telling you you’re more independent, more Republican, or something like that?

Ade Salami: What we did instead was create a GPT-based prompt that generates a response based on what someone submits. You can answer as many or as few of the spectra as you want. Then you answer a few demographic questions, like party affiliation, gender, age, and education.

The GPT then looks at your responses and compares them with responses from others who share similar demographic characteristics. For example, it might say, “You identify as a Democrat, you completed all 17 spectra, and you agree with other Democrats on nine of them. On eight, you don’t.”
That insight has been really impactful.

I know people who were confident they were in lockstep with their party and then learned they only agreed on about half the issues.

Opening that conversation has been meaningful, and we hope the tool has been beneficial for those who’ve taken the survey.

Martha Engber: I did take it. People love surveys. You get one and think, “I have to know where I stand.” It was really fun. For people reading or viewing this interview, if you haven’t done it, go to their website and try it. What I want to ask next is: how worried are you about authoritarianism?

Ade Salami: That’s the million-dollar question. I’m probably more worried than I’ve ever been, but I’m not fatalistic.

Part of that is because more people see what’s happening now. In 2016, conversations about authoritarianism felt alarmist. That’s not the case anymore. You see it in discussions of niche policy issues, like the War Powers Act, becoming part of mainstream conversation.

You see it in places like the Minneapolis, in how people respond to ICE, the protests, and the pushback. I’m worried about what the government is doing, but I’m also more encouraged than I’ve ever been by how aware and engaged the public is.

People aren’t just watching anymore. They’re responding and engaging, and that matters.

Martha Engber: So this upheaval is forcing people to be more civically minded, more engaged, more knowledgeable. Everyone now understands misinformation in a way we weren’t talking about even eight or ten years ago.

Ade Salami: Exactly. People also aren’t content anymore to be told not to worry. They want to understand what’s happening. They want information so they can decide whether they like what’s happening or believe something different could work. They need to understand the system before they can change it.

Martha Engber: What would you like to see in the future, and what gives you hope that we’ll get there?

Ade Salami: What I want is a democracy where it’s normal to disagree, where we expect to persuade one another instead of trying to rig the system so one side always wins.

One idea we’ve lost is that our visions of the future don’t have to match. That’s the whole point of democracy. We’re not arguing about survival. We’re arguing about what kind of life we want.

I joke that I’m a refined, non-alcoholic champagne socialist. Fundamentally, I want everyone’s basic needs met. But also, once your needs are met, maybe you want something extra. Maybe you want something nice. Maybe you want guac at Chipotle. That’s normal.

And what gives me hope is that there are new coalitions already starting to form around things most Americans actually agree on. Most Americans want control over their bodies. Most Americans want leaders who understand their struggles.

We want freedom from religious persecution. We want to trust the news. We want responsible leadership. People may come at those ideas from different places, but they’re shared ideals. They’re shared outcomes that we have in common.

I don’t think people who support President Trump are there because they want authoritarianism. I think they’re there because they want change. They know the system is broken, just like people who don’t support Donald Trump.

We disagree on why the system is broken and how to fix it.

Another thing that gives me hope is candidates who actually speak to that brokenness and offer concrete ways to improve people’s lives. I’m thinking of Mayor Mamdani’s recent election and campaign. When candidates offer real solutions, voters respond, even if the candidates themselves seem imperfect.

In many 2025 elections, we saw people voting for different kinds of leaders than they typically would, because they were hungry for something to shift and look different.

The fact that people across the political spectrum are saying, “This isn’t working, we need to do something different,” makes me optimistic.

That recognition, that shared understanding, shows we do have a collective affirmative vision. And I think that’s the first step.

Martha Engber: Wonderful. I’m all for hope. Thanks, Ade.

Ade Salami: Thank you, Martha.

Join the Common Ground Movement!

If you’ve found this post helpful, please subscribe below and share with others. Please also join the Vigilant Positivity Facebook page and YouTube channel.

Definition of Common Ground Movement: placing your loyalty with other Americans, rather than any political party, and embracing the fact we have more in common than not.

Book Recommendation: “The Certainty Trap”

I’ve been taking a Braver Angels workshop called Walk a Mile in My News. All participants are paired with another person of a different political viewpoint. The goal is to meet 3 -5 times over three weeks to discuss where each person gets their information regarding issues that are important to them, including blogs, news programs, articles, podcasts, etc. The workshop begins with an introductory meeting run by moderators to explain the rules for all participants. An meeting at the end allows people to unpack the experience. The goal is to reevaluate how and where we look for data, facts and opinions, and possibly change our news sources, i.e., let some go by the wayside and add others to our list.

For example, since joining Braver Angels, for example, I consult fewer mainstream media outlets and seek out more nonpartisan organizations like AllSides and Tangle News. I also listen to more podcasts that include opposing viewpoints or focus on depolarization, such as Derate the Hate.

For this workshop I was paired with a man from New Hampshire. During one of our discussions, pointed me toward a book titled “The Certainty Trap: Why We Need to Question Ourselves More―and How We Can Judge Others Less” by Ilana Redstone, a professor of sociology at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign.

George sent me the notes he took while reading the book. The information seems to jive with other books I’ve read about how the mind works and why we humans so strongly feel the need to be certain and right, which makes us susceptible to polarization.

In one note from the book, George wrote:

“It ultimately comes down to control. We want to feel in control of our lives and of our environment. We want our universe to be predictable. Lack of control challenges our agency. Randomness does not sit well with us. We become uncomfortable when we feel we are not in control of our fate. We want clear, unassailable rules of cause and effect.”

To gain that sense of control, we rely on “blind certainty,” which Dr. Redstone describes as a form of imprisonment that prevents us from asking questions, leads to sloppy thinking and causes us to dismiss others who hold different views.

Here are a few more notes to entice you to put this book on your to-read list, too (thank you, George!):

  • Avoiding the certainty trap is more than just taking part in “civil discourse.” It is recognizing that there is a chance that our view may be limited or wrong, no matter how confident we are.
  • Fallacy of Equal Knowledge means if someone had the same information as me, they would agree with me.
  • If someone disagrees with us or views something differently, it is easier for us to assume they know less than us.
  • Uncertainty does not sit well with most of us. Leaning away from certainty and seeing complexity takes more energy.

Join the Common Ground Movement!

If you’ve found this post helpful, please subscribe below and share with others. Please also join the Vigilant Positivity Facebook page and YouTube channel.

Definition of Common Ground Movement: placing your loyalty with other Americans, rather than any political party, and embracing the fact we have more in common than not.

How I Became a Braver Angel

I recently attended “Dignity Over Violence: A Unified Civic Response,” an online Braver Angels panel discussion about the assassination of conservative activist Charlie Kirk and the growing political violence in America.

The event — attended by 1400 Americans — was hosted by Maury Giles, the new CEO of the national nonpartisan organization dedicated to depolarization and civil discussion. The event included twelve speakers from a variety of other bridge-building organizations such as BridgeUSA and CommonSense American.

The program addressed the need for all Americans to stand up to say that political violence is unacceptable.

To grow make that message louder, we need to grow the number of people who belong to the Common Ground Movement.

With that in mind, at the end of the online event, Maury invited us to send our stories about how we had become members of BA, in the hopes that by telling others about our journeys, we can persuade them to join the ranks of Americans of all political viewpoints who’ve joined together to discuss how to make our country less divisive.

You can send your story to stories@braverangels.com.

Here’s my story.


If I’ve learned one thing in life, it’s that meaningful change seems to stem solely from a breathtakingly painful ah-ha moment of seeing our own failings with utter clarity.

Such an instant of agony is what led me to become a Braver Angel.

*

Last fall I heard a radio program in which two friends — a female Democrat and a male Republican — decided to spend election day together. The woman said she felt a sense of calm. That even if her preferred candidate didn’t win, she knew she could talk to her friend about any actions the new president might take that she found questionable.

And I thought, Yeah, right.

Yet even then I envied her surety because she had someone of a different political viewpoint with whom to talk.

*

After the last election, I felt bereft of hope. A normally even-keeled person, I couldn’t sleep and felt nauseous and panicky at the thought of the leaders who would take power on inauguration day. Every day my emotions would roller coaster from outrage to despair and then bitterness, that America deserved whatever bad might happen.

I thought about the woman on the radio and wished more than ever that I had a friend with a different political viewpoint, but I had no idea of how to meet someone like that since I live in a region that’s primarily represented by one political party.

Then my sister told me the pastor at her church recommended joining an organization known as Braver Angels. I read the mission statement about bringing people together for civil discussion. Within two weeks I had become a member, connected with my local alliance and attended two online workshops and one in-person event.

But it wasn’t until a month later that I actually transitioned from being just a member, to embodying the Braver Angel spirit.

*

The catalyst for the mind-blowing transformation stemmed from a simple action: I reposted a video of a man who voiced his grief at the outcome of the election because he seemed to voice everything I felt.

After posting, I received comments of agreement from friends who share the same political beliefs. But one person said she thought I was wrong in voicing such negativity and that the future would be fine.

I didn’t respond immediately, and am glad I didn’t, because I realized this was a person who had politely let me know that she was of a different political viewpoint. We got into a conversation online, and while I won’t list specific issues, this is the gist:

Me: I think that’s white.

Her: Actually, it’s clearly black.

Me: You have to go west.

Her: No, east is the way.

Me: But surely you have to go up.

Her: You’d think so, but you go down instead.

How could the divide between what we believed to be true could be so stark?

Rereading the exchange, I saw a second pattern, that whatever we say about those of other political viewpoints is what they’re saying about us.

You’re an idiot.

No, you’re an idiot.

You’re being manipulated.

Actually, you’re being manipulated.

You’re selfish and have no compassion.

Look who’s talking. You’re selfish and without compassion.

Why were we Americans parroting the same negative messages?

And that’s when I realized that all of us — not just me, not just you, but all of us — are being manipulated by people who are purposely dividing us in order to gain power and money, and that made me feel sick.

Since delving deeper into that subject, I now know those people and organizations are conflict entrepreneurs, a term coined by journalist Amanda Ripley in her book “High Conflict” and referenced recently in “Beyond the Politics of Contempt” by Braver Angels members Doug Teschner, Beth Malow and Becky Robinson.

These conflict entrepreneurs who rake in donations and strategize to retain power at any cost are the ones who’ve conditioned us to hate one another. They’re politicians, political parties, hostile foreign nations and outright scammers who craft carefully edited messages that are inaccurate and designed to make us Americans afraid, worried and mad at one another.

What an awful thought, of the billions these people and organizations must spend every year to pay writers, editors, influencers, social media strategists, radio/TV/cable/streaming hosts and AI specialists, all with the purpose of keeping our population confused and emotionally distraught enough that we don’t think clearly.

We’re too busy pointing fingers at one another to notice the harm our country has sustained, not for a few years, but decades, during which major issues have not been substantively addressed: immigration, federal spending, social programs, crime, education, interference by bad foreign actors.

But what struck me deepest was that I fell for that negative messaging, too.

I, as a journalist, who thought myself to be logical and neutral, fell for the emails and social media posts that got me upset enough to donate money or write furious letters to my representatives.

*

The moment I recognized I’d been duped was when I became a real Braver Angel, because in that instant I thought, I refuse.

I refuse to hate my fellow Americans.

I refuse to share, comment on, post, read or listen to any messages or articles that make me feel fear, outrage and hate.

I refuse to believe people with other political viewpoints are my enemy.

In short, I’ve turned my back on conflict entrepreneurs and now openly face my fellow Americans to say I hear you, I’m with you and we need one another to take back our country from those who’ve forgotten their job is to have our back.

We Americans don’t have the billions of dollars to fight the negative messaging of conflict entrepreneurs. But we do have one another, a group of hundreds of millions. So that’s my mission every day, to welcome one more of the “exhausted majority” (https://hiddentribes.us/) into the growing group of us who stand together to listen to and support one another. A group that I hope will rapidly grow big enough that we’ll have the power to demand that our government work for us rather than against us.

That’s going to be a tough haul, but I have no doubt We, the People, will succeed.

And that’s why I’m a Braver Angel.

Join the Common Ground Movement!

If you’ve found this post helpful, please subscribe below and share with others. Please also join the Vigilant Positivity Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61570111718959) and YouTube channel (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ6XlUCmeBzZEXLPwegWuqQ).

Definition of Common Ground Movement: placing your loyalty with other Americans, rather than any political party, and embracing the fact we have more in common than not.

RepublicEN: Can a Conservative Climate Change Org Influence a Republican Government?

About RepublicEN

Whether we Americans agree on whether humans caused climate change or not, it’s clear the climate is changing and that we humans will need to adapt, and if possible, reduce the severity by taking action.

Climate change has been politicized to such a degree that I was happy someone referred me to RepublicEN, an organization that stems from the Energy and Enterprise Initiative at George Mason University in Fairfax, VA.

Those who belong call themselves the EcoRight and “believe in the power of American free enterprise and innovation to solve climate change. Together, we encourage, embolden, and applaud conservative climate leadership.”

The organization argues that regulating emissions don’t work because applying such rules to American businesses will encourage them to move elsewhere. And while incentivizing clean energy is a good idea, poorer countries often can’t afford cleaner technologies.

Instead, RepublicENs believe pricing is the answer. By attaching a cost to the negative impacts of emissions, any dirty means of generating electricity would become more expensive that solar, wind, hydro and nuclear power. Consumers would automatically choose the cheaper options.

The organization encourages the use of the well-known carbon tax. Whatever carbon decreases a company manages to make would be paired with a dollar-for-dollar reduction in taxes, or even a dividend to be returned to Americans. The tax would be applied to imports from countries that don’t have a set price on carbon dioxide.

The organization encourages members to write their elected officials; share content that helps navigate conversations with other conservatives; and take action by organizing EcoRight events. They also believe voters would be more likely to choose Republican candidates if they prioritized climate change solutions.

Some stats on conservative views on climate change

The following statistics come from a variety of polls, many of which also include stats regarding Democratic viewpoints.

RE: concern about climate change

Yale/George Mason University 2024 study: Around 52% of Republicans are either alarmed, concerned, or cautious about global warming. About half of that group is either alarmed or concerned.

Among Republicans under 35, 57% believe climate change is happening, while the percentage drops to 43% among those 55 and older.

RE: Level of threat

Chicago Council on Global Affairs: Only about 16% of Republicans see climate change as a critical threat, compared to 82% of Democrats.


Pew Research Center: About 23% of Republicans consider climate change a major threat to the country.

RE: Perceived affect on communities

Pew Research Center: 36% of Republicans say climate change is affecting their community a great deal or some.

AP-NORC poll: 48% of Republicans (versus 93% of Democrats) believe climate change contributed to recent extreme weather events.

RE: Policy Priority

Center for Climate Change Communication: As of spring 2025, about 22% of liberal/moderate Republicans, and 12% of conservative Republicans, say global warming should be a high or very high priority for Congress and the President.

RE: Support for government action

Resources for the Future’s “Climate Insights 2024: Partisan Views”:

  • 57% of Republicans support at least a moderate role for the federal government in addressing global warming.
  • 61% of Republicans support reducing emissions from power plants.
  • 48% support improving appliance energy efficiency.

Current climate change policy

The above statistics seem to be in stark contrast to the actions President Trump has taken since taking office. They include:

  • Withdrawing from the Paris Agreement (Executive Order 14162, Jan 2025).
  • Exiting the UN’s Loss and Damage Fund (March 2025).
  • Dismantling federal climate protections (targeted National Monuments, NOAA, U.S. Global Change Research Program; aligned with Project 2025).
  • Declaring a national energy emergency; promoted coal, fast-tracked fossil fuel permits, reversed Alaskan restrictions and Clean Power Plan.
  • Deregulating the EPA (31 major deregulations were announced in a single day).
  • Proposing 27% budget cut to NOAA, eliminated most climate research programs, and moved to overturn the EPA “endangerment finding.”
  • Installing Lee Zeldin as EPA administrator, who rolled back mercury and PFAS rules, closed the Office of Research & Development, and pursued endangerment finding reversal.
  • Tightening Treasury rules on wind and solar subsidies (stricter eligibility for federal tax credits).
  • Ending Biden-era EV mandates, paused EV charger funding, rolled back tailpipe emissions standards.
  • Declaring energy emergency to expand fossil fuel production, reverse green policies, and eliminate climate accords/Green New Deal measures

Here are the actions Congress has taken:

  • Introduced 26 resolutions under the Congressional Review Act to overturn Biden-era climate regulations (2 passed a chamber, 4 sent to Trump, 6 signed into law).
  • Will end wind and solar credits (projects after mid-2026 / online after 2027).
  • Phase out EV tax credits by Sept 2025.
  • Ends EV charging credits by June 2026.
  • Delays methane emission fees for 10 years.
  • Extends biofuel credits through 2031.
  • Cuts funding for green banks and alternative fuel vehicle grants

New legislation and resolutions include:

My question for you

If you’re a conservative, do you think climate change is being adequately addressed?

Join the Common Ground Movement!

If you’ve found this post helpful, please subscribe below and share with others. Please also join the Vigilant Positivity Facebook page and YouTube channel.

Definition of Common Ground Movement: placing your loyalty with other Americans, rather than any political party, and embracing the fact we have more in common than not.

Crime Rates in America in 2025

President Trump’s deployment of the National Guard and takeover of the Washington, D.C., Metropolitan Police Department after a Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE) employee was carjacked in the city got me to wondering three things:

  1. Which are the highest crime rate cities per capita?
  2. Which of the cities have experienced a drop in crime?
  3. Why would the president get involved in city crime rates?

Crime rate per 100,000 people

Total crime rate

The following comes from the FBI Uniform Crime Rate data for 2023 (cities with populations over 50,000):

  • Oakland, CA – 13,793.94
  • Memphis, TN – 11,277.78
  • Tacoma, WA – 8,655.11
  • St. Louis, MO – 7,881.60
  • Little Rock, AR – 7,257.15
  • Pueblo, CO – 7,069.40
  • Detroit, MI – 6,863.19
  • Denver, CO – 6,791.00
  • Berkeley, CA – 6,749.86
  • San Leandro, CA – 6,674.92

Total violent crime rate

The following comes from CBS News, which summarizes FBI data.

For large cities (over 250,000 people):

  • Detroit, MI – ~1,988 per 100,000
  • Memphis, TN – ~1,740 per 100,000
  • Oakland, CA – ~1,685 per 100,000
  • St. Louis, MO – ~1,679 per 100,000
  • Milwaukee, WI – ~1,476 per 100,000
  • Baltimore, MD – ~1,339 per 100,000
  • Cleveland, OH – ~1,334 per 100,000

For medium-sized cities (100,000 – 250,000 people):

  • Birmingham, AL – 1,588 per 100,000
  • Little Rock, AR – 1,392 per 100,000
  • Rockford, IL – 1,235 per 100,000

Top Murder Rate per 100,000


The following is from CBS News data shows for large cities:

  • St. Louis, MO – ~49.9 per 100,000
  • Detroit, MI – ~43.5 per 100,000
  • New Orleans, LA – ~38.8 per 100,000
  • Baltimore, MD – ~33.8 per 100,000
  • Newark, NJ – ~33.3 per 100,000


Additional ranking from RoadSnacks for 2024:

  • New Orleans, LA
  • St. Louis, MO
  • Baltimore, MD
  • Detroit, MI
  • Jackson, MS
  • Memphis, TN
  • Cleveland, OH
  • Little Rock, AR
  • Milwaukee, WI

Which big cities of 250,000 or more people have seen a big drop in crime?

All of the following have seen a decrease in homicides

  • Oakland, CA: down 21% in the first half of 2025 vs. the same period in 2024 (the overall violent and property crimes down over 25% combined (San Francisco Chronicle).
  • New York City, NY: down 34.4% in the first quarter of 2025 vs. the same period in 2024.
  • Los Angeles, CA: down 33% in the first quarter of 2025 vs. the same period in 2024.Chicago, IL: down 25% in the first quarter of 2025 vs. the same period in 2024.
  • Philadelphia, PA: down 30% in the first quarter of 2025 vs. the same period in 2024.
  • Dallas, TX: down 34% in the first quarter of 2025 vs. the same period in 2024.
  • Atlanta, GA: down 35% by early May 2025 vs. same period in 2024.
  • San Diego, CA: down 27% in the first half of 2025 vs. first half of 2024.
  • Miami-Dade County (includes Miami), FL: down 39% in the first quarter of 2025 vs. the same period in 2024.
  • Baltimore, MD: down 23% in first half of 2025 compared to same period in 2024.

In San Francisco, CA, violent crime dropped 14% between 2024 vs. 2023, as did property crime (down 30%), and homicides fell to 35 total.

Though Washington, D.C., is not mentioned, the city apparently does have a serious crime problem. And while the city’s violent crime rate is down, there’s a question about the “30-year low” mentioned in the widely-circulated Jan. 3 US Department of Justice press release. Consider reading Isaac Saul’s commentary, “Trump’s Takeover of the D.C. Police” in the Aug. 19 Tangle newsletter.

Why would the president get involved in city crime rates?

I looked up the reasoning behind the president’s actions from both Republican and Democratic viewpoints. Because I’d like to avoid using code words that upset one side or the other, as discussed in my article, Political Code Wording: Are We All Guilty?, I’d rather provide my observations and see what you think in order to get a conversation going.

My opinion

Crime rate

Washington, D.C.’s, crime rate doesn’t merit the level of time and expense the president has expended so far. The city is not listed among those with the highest crime rates, and it has seen a continued decline in crime, even if a more modest decrease than other cities. If the president is going to get involved in local crime matters, I’d like to see him spend resources on smaller communities that are really suffering, such as Birmingham, New Orleans and St. Louis.

Type of crime

I was surprised a carjacking would instigate such a strong reaction from the president. While I’m sure it would be very upsetting to experience, the crime is not equivalent to one that involves the loss of life.

According to Wikipedia, in 2025 there have been 268 mass shootings between January and July in America, which if the trend continues, could lead to 441 by year’s end.

As a citizen, I’d much rather that federal attention be focused on creating the laws and resources necessary to address that issue.

Local autonomy

Given the above research, I don’t think President Trump has provided even close to a strong enough reason to deny a city of its autonomy. Much of his information appears to be wrong regarding crime rates.

I do understand his stated goal of being tough on crime, and encourage him to take substantive action to help all communities toward that end.

But having the president of an industrialized nation step in to take over a local police department due to a single crime perpetrated against a low-level government official feels disingenuous. More importantly, it diminishes the ability of our local governments to operate as the citizenry directed through laws and elections.

My question for you

Would you welcome having the president take over your local police department and send in National Guardsmen due to a carjacking or an equivalent crime?

Join the Common Ground Movement!

If you’ve found this post helpful, please subscribe below and share with others. Please also join the Vigilant Positivity Facebook page and YouTube channel.

Definition of Common Ground Movement: placing your loyalty with other Americans, rather than any political party, and embracing the fact we have more in common than not.

Political Code Wording: Are We all Guilty?

Code wording is when we use specific words or phrases that contain hidden meanings to those in our inner circles to convey information discreetly.

The funniest example I can think of is that before menstruation could be talked about in public, I and other girls and women would say things like, “I just got my monthly bill,” or “my friend just arrived,” both said with a dose of sarcasm, but that hit its mark by bonding us in shared understanding.

I don’t know when I became conscious of political code wording, only that it seeped into my life starting in the 1990s. What I do know is that the phenomenon appears to be a significant part of our current polarization in America.

When code wording began

Political code wording, also called “dog whistling (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dog_whistle_(politics)),” has long existed in some form.


In “The Origins of 20 Political Words and Phrases,” (WBAY, April 20, 2024), writer Colleen Kilday points out that the term “founding fathers” was first uttered in 1916 by then-Sen. Warren G. Harding during the Republican National Convention. The term remains vague as to who’s included.

“John Adams himself rejected the designation outright, writing that the titles “founder” and ‘father’ “belong to no man, but to the American people in general.”

During the Civil Rights era, politicians used “states’ rights” as a polite stand-in for “opposing federal desegregation.” Ronald Reagan’s 1980 campaign speech in Mississippi referenced this term in a way that many understood as a subtle appeal to white Southern voters without directly mentioning race.

In such instances, code wording allows the signaling of loyalty or ideology while offering deniability to the speaker.

Code wording examples

10 examples from the Left

  • equity: often used instead of “reparations” to promote fairness.
  • marginalized communities: implies groups that have been oppressed, often without directly naming race, gender or class directly.
  • reproductive rights: refers to abortion access without saying “abortion.”
  • justice-involved individuals: a euphemism for people those who’ve been incarcerated somehow embroiled in the legal system.
  • climate justice: links climate change to social inequality and so suggests that environmentalism is also about human rights.
  • gender-affirming care: refers to medical procedures related to gender transition, though without naming specifics.
  • undocumented workers: an alternative to “illegal immigrants” meant to emphasize humanity before legal status.
  • restorative practices: alternatives to punishment in schools or justice systems, often referring to progressive reforms.
  • anti-racism: refers to dismantling systemic racism, often through education and policy change.
  • diverse voices: a catchphrase for non-white, non-male, or LGBTQ+ inclusion without naming identity categories.

10 examples from the Right

  • law and order: signals support for police and tough-on-crime policies.
  • traditional values: refers to conservative positions on family, gender roles, and sexuality, often rooted in religious beliefs.
  • woke agenda: a dismissive term for liberal cultural values, especially those related to race and gender.
  • patriotic education: opposing curricula like Critical Race Theory (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_race_theory) or progressive interpretations of American history.
  • globalists: implies distrust of international elites, often used as a veiled anti-Semitic dog whistle.
  • Second Amendment rights: refers to gun rights.
  • illegal aliens: used instead of “undocumented immigrants” and signals a tougher stance on immigration enforcement.
  • radical left: a euphemism the implies extremism in Democratic or progressive policies.
  • the deep state (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deep_state_conspiracy_theory_in_the_United_States): suggests there’s an unseen, unelected bureaucracy working against elected officials and is often tied to conspiracy theories.
  • parental rights: often used to oppose progressive education policies around sex ed, LGBTQ+ issues, or diversity programs.

Who uses code wording?

Code wording is used by politicians, political pundits, and as far as I know, all of us Americans citizens, even if we’re sometimes unaware the term might be insulting to someone, or mark us as of one political orientation or another.

Why code wording is so effective

This language works because it feels like a secret handshake. It draws lines between those who “get it” and those who don’t.


In marketing, this is called “signaling” because it sends messages about your beliefs or group without spelling them out. It’s efficient and emotionally powerful. In politics, that emotional charge can galvanize supporters, raise money, and shape legislation — all without a single explicit declaration.

Why code wording is so harmful

While code wording is effective, it’s also deeply damaging for the following reasons.


Hindrance to honest dialogue

If we use euphemisms and signals rather than plain speech, it becomes harder to have substantive conversations across lines of difference.


Terms like the ones listed under “examples” may sound benign, but they carry decades of cultural baggage. And when we avoid direct terms like “poverty,” “race,” or “police violence,” we bury the problems — and their potential solutions — under layers of coded language.

Causes suspicion

Code wording fosters suspicion. Because coded terms often imply a hidden agenda, people on the “outside” of a political group start to distrust the entire conversation. You may not know what someone means by “the deep state” or “DEI,” but you know it’s loaded. That ambiguity creates fertile ground for conspiracy theories and fear.

Can radicalize people


Language that begins as vague can grow sharper and more extreme within closed communities. A term like “replacement theory” started as a fringe idea, but became mainstream when it was adopted by public figures who never used the words “white supremacy” because they didn’t have to. Everyone listening knew what they meant.

What we can do about it

Get curious

When someone uses a term that seems vague or suspicious, ask what they mean. Not as a challenge, but as a way to open the conversation. For example: “When you say ‘woke,’ what are you referring to exactly?” or “What does ‘patriotic education’ mean to you?”

Scrutinize out our own usage


I have to admit that I use code words without thinking because they’re often used — and accepted by — the people around me.


So I’ve started identifying the words that can be triggering for someone who doesn’t share my point of view. Instead, I use more direct words.


By saying what we mean, and meaning what we say, we can avert mistrust. “I believe in affirmative action,” for example, is far clearer — and braver — than “I support diverse hiring practices.”

Media literacy


Media literacy wasn’t taught when I was growing up, but maybe it should be now. If we help people understand how language is used to persuade, divide, and manipulate, we can give them tools to question what they hear and what they say.


The more we call it out, decode it, and insist on clarity, the less power it has over us.

Further reading


If you’d like to read more about the subject, here are a few suggestions:

Join the Common Ground Movement!

Definition of Common Ground Movement: vouching your loyalty to other Americans rather than a political party, and embracing the fact we have more in common than not.

you’ve found this post helpful, please subscribe below and share with others. Please also join the Vigilant Positivity Facebook page and YouTube channel.

Would You Join a Common Ground Movement?

Besides being a journalist and writer, I’m a personal trainer and fitness instructor. The combination has always struck others as unusual. One is introspective, the other social. One is sedentary and the other active.

Yet the two share key commonalities: curiosity; the drive to learn more; the ability to distill ideas into simple, understandable messages that inspire people to change their behavior.

A Common Ground Movement

I think of the Common Ground Movement as one in which the majority of Americans — the many millions of us who are exhausted and discouraged by the extreme partisanship of our country — come together to speak with one voice to our national leaders about what we want:

  • a stable economy where all Americans get a chance to succeed
  • safe communities
  • affordable healthcare and housing
  • a completely overhauled and transparent immigration system
  • a secure standing in the world

Now compare that to our current political system which has, for the past four decades, been a system in which politicians worry more about remaining in power than recognizing, and solving, big issues such as immigration, income inequality and lack of opportunities for upward mobility.

So how do we build a movement?

Lesson 1: We’re all a target of negative messaging

When I became a Braver Angels member in November 2024, I quickly realized that negative messaging had conditioned me to distrust fellow Americans.

Those delivering the messages are not bogeymen secretly controlling the world, but instead just people who want our money, our vote and to retain power. They’re advertisers who want to sell us things. They’re politicians who rile us up against “the other side” to spur donations or win elections. They’re foreign powers who have a stake in seeing America fail.

That’s when I began talking with all of you, Americans on both sides of the political spectrum, which led to a second insight.

Lesson 2: We need to talk to one another

When we talk together, we quickly learn that by avoiding “facts” — because everybody has their own — and showing respect, we learn how much common ground we share.

Lesson 3: We need to change our behavior

Talking to one another, however, is not enough. While we might feel better about ourselves and our communities by developing relationships with those of different viewpoints, very few problems will change unless we take actions based on those newfound relationships.

That’s the conclusion of “Bridgebuilding Effectiveness,” an article by Michelle Garred and Allison K. Ralph in The Fulcrum.

Changing our behavior, and stepping beyond our comfort zone, is by far the most difficult because it requires breaking habits we often don’t know about that stand in the way of reaching our goal. Returning to the fitness metaphor, we might want to lose weight, but love our ice cream.

If we want change in the form of more peace, less hatred and fear, and a far more effective government that serves everyone, we need to change behaviors that stymie that result.

By changing our behavior, I mean such things as:

  • stop listening, reading or responding to negative messaging that encourages hate and mistrust of “the other side”
  • seek out a variety of news platforms, keeping in mind that all are biased
  • join Braver Angels or a bridgebuilding organization of your choice
  • learn to respect and trust those on the opposite side of the political spectrum and work with them to develop policies that can be proposed to our local, state and federal governments
  • vow allegiance to our fellow Americans rather than to any political party
  • actively recruit people to a common ground movement that emphasizes positivity
  • consider voting for candidates from another political party if they have the credentials and platform that can make our communities and country better

Difficult, but not impossible

Changing our behavior is often difficult. Doing so regarding our political identity is even more so. We don’t want to admit we’ve absorbed negative messaging, nor that our preferred leaders might not have our best interests at heart. Not to mention we’re busy with our lives and don’t necessarily know what to do about a problem that seems far beyond our control.

So the best place to start fostering change is with one small step after another. Join Braver Angels or another bridgebuilding organization. Attend meetings, workshops and conversations. Then when you’re ready, volunteer for opportunities that allow you to act on your convictions.

Please subscribe below to join the Common Ground Movement!

If you found this post helpful, please share, comment, subscribe below and suggest topics you’d like to see addressed. You can also find Vigilant Positivity on Facebook and YouTube.

Citizen Spotlight: Author and Former Rep. Doug Teschner, R-NH

My Citizen Spotlight for this month is Doug Teschner, of West Lebanon, NH. He’s co-authoring “BEYOND THE POLITICS of CONTEMPT: Practical Steps to Build Positive Relationships in Divided Times” with Beth Malow (see post: “Want to Hop Off the Political Polarization Train?,” May 1, 2025) and Becky Robinson. The book will be published this summer.



Doug has had the opportunity to serve our nation in various ways, including as an elected Republican member of the New Hampshire House of Representatives. He represented our country overseas as a Peace Corps volunteer and country director, serving in Morocco, Ukraine, and several African nations. Now he volunteers with Braver Angels, a national nonprofit dedicated to uniting Americans through civil discussion. He serves as New England Regional Leader and works with elected officials to develop their skills and commitment to work together across political differences, an initiative known as Braver Politics.

He’s especially proud of a three-year effort that led to the creation of the Granite Bridge Legislative Alliance, a caucus of Republican and Democratic legislators in New Hampshire working to foster positive relationships across the political divide. While he could have chosen to enjoy a relaxing retirement, he instead feels called to help address the stark problems of division and polarization facing our nation.

Read the transcript below or watch the full interview on the Vigilant Positivity YouTube channel.


Martha Engber: Hello, Doug!

Doug Teschner: Well thanks for that nice introduction. I’ll also tell your viewers and readers that I’m 75 years old and not getting any younger, and while I’ve had a really good and interesting life and a lot of great experiences, I’m concerned about our country and where we’re headed.

That concern is how I first got involved with Braver Angels back in 2019. That was right before Covid and it was such a crazy time in our country. I went to a couple of workshops and then everything kind of shut down. But we started doing work on Zoom and I’ve been very active ever since.

I went to a Braver Angels convention in the summer of 2023 in Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, and in the opening session we had to write on a card the answer to Why are you here?

I wrote, “BEYOND THE POLITICS OF CONTEMPT” because I worry that my grandchildren are not going to enjoy the benefits of this country that I’ve had. That sort of propelled me forward with a New Year’s resolution to write this book. It’s been a long, arduous journey, but I’m very excited about it, just as I’m excited and concerned about how we’re going to get past this deep division that we’re living through.

Martha Engber: I enjoyed reading the article you wrote for the Substack blog you and your co-writers publish, Together Across Differences (people can subscribe to get updates about the book. Titled “If I Had a Hammer: Tribute to Civility, Braver Angels and Peter Yarrow,” who, for those of you who don’t know, is the “Peter” in the 1960s folk group Peter, Paul and Mary. You write about the unpleasant moment that led to the eventual writing of the book. Can you tell us about that?

Doug Teschner: I was thinking about when I came home after being overseas for most of the period between 2002 and 2016.

I was at an outdoor concert in my community and there was another former legislator there. I set up my lawn chair next to him and his group and got to chatting with them. Quickly the subject turned to politics and who voted for who in 2016, and the conversation got a little nasty.

I walked away that day and I thought, Wow, I have to do better when it comes to these relationships. I had been following this division in the U.S. from overseas and was thinking, What’s going on back home? And now I was home and I was kind of caught up in it.

You mentioned Peter Yarrow. I got to know him in Ukraine in 2010. Some of my Peace Corps volunteers invited him because he’s of Ukrainian descent and had created a nonprofit called Operation Respect using songs as an anti-bullying device in schools in particular. Some of my volunteers thought that would be useful. And they invited Peter and he came multiple times and I got to know him.

In 2019 he did a concert with Noel Paul Stookey, the Paul Hall of Peter, Paul, and Mary and afterward I got to see him. He gave me a big hug and he said, “Doug, I have to tell you about this group called Better Angels.”

Braver Angels was called Better Angels initially after the Abraham Lincoln quote. He had been involved in an early workshop and there was a movie that he was in, and he sent me the link and I said, “this is the kind of thing I’m interested in.” And I went to a couple workshops and I was hooked.

Martha Engber: Did you at one time look at those with a different political viewpoint as the problem with America?

Doug Teschner: Well, I wouldn’t say that. To me, what’s happened has been an erosion. When I was in the state legislature here in New Hampshire from 1988 to 98, and then we came back in 2000 to 2002, we had some difficult fights and big disagreements and it was hard.

But people for the most part really got along and didn’t really criticize people. Something really happening late in my service. In the 1990s, personal attacks really took off, probably due to Newt Gingrich. He was influential at the congressional level and went after the Republican leadership and thought they were too cozy with the Democratic leadership.

Gingrich took a majority and there’s nothing wrong with that. The problem is, when you disagree with people, fine, disagree. We have differences of opinion. People should disagree. This is how democracy works. This is how our government’s supposed to work.

The problem is when people personalize it and it becomes,

If you don’t agree with me, that means you are evil or you’re stupid. You don’t love our country.

So it’s not about agreement. It’s much more about how we think about the people who have different political views that has really deteriorated.

When I was overseas, I heard a show on NPR called This American Life. It had a segment on how divisive the New Hampshire legislature had become. I listened and that was interesting.

But there was another segment where people were talking about disagreeing around politics. And I remember vividly one guy said, “We’ll, I’ll still invite my brother-in-law to my barbecue, but he’s have to bring his own meat because he voted for Obama.” And I’m thinking, What? When did politics become so essential to people’s identities?

It used to be people’s identities had so many dimensions to it: how they saw other people, their hobbies, their work, their families. But somehow politics has become so central to people’s identity that we’re creating this us-versus-them mentality.

When I got home after being overseas and I had that one experience that we talked about earlier, I realized this is a real problem for our country. We have to figure out a way to get past this.

After the Civil War, Abraham Lincoln said something akin to Let’s bind up the wounds and these people are our brothers and we need to appeal to the better angels of our nature. He didn’t demonize the people in the Confederacy. It was,

We’re all here together.

We have to figure it out. This is the concern I have and what’s driven me to this work and writing this book.

Martha Engber: Can you pinpoint a moment that caused you to see the power of uniting Americans?

Doug Teschner: Let’s talk about 2001 and the 9-11 terrorist attacks and how people came together after that. And you remember President George W. Bush made a point of saying, “Let’s not demonize the Muslims. The people who carried out the attacks are terrorists. Let’s not demonize the Muslim Americans that live here. They’re our brothers and sisters.” And we did come together.

But now I wonder if our country was invaded, whether we’d be able to handle it or if we’d just blame the other party. We have to figure out a way to come back together as a nation and see the humanity in all of our citizens.

Martha Engber: When I first joined Braver Angels, I immediately could see the power of it because I think that the people who are extreme on either side are a relatively small percentage of Americans, whereas there are a lot of people who are more or less in the middle who do not have extreme ideas, and who more or less want the country to run in a reasonable, normal, non-extreme fashion. I thought, Wow, uniting Americans can really be the way to go. It could really be the trick. Have you seen evidence of that potential, or are you unsure if it’ll happen?

Doug Teschner: I’m glad you brought that up because there’s a really interesting study that was done in 2018 called The Hidden Tribes Report and we talk about it a lot in our book. They did a lot of research of people across the country and they put people in seven different categories and the people on the extremes are the ones that are driving the agenda, and according to the study, that’s 9% of people on the left and 25% of people on the right and the rest of the people they put in the exhausted majority. And we’re not convinced about the 25% people on the right either, because I know a lot of conservatives who haven’t adopted this attitude of we have to vanquish the other side.

I mean, that’s the mentality of the people on the extremes. We have to vanquish the other side. Well, what does that mean?

Vanquish the other side? Are we going to have a civil war here? What’s your intent? What’s your goal? One of the things I ask people is, “What’s your goal with how you see politics and your own personal behavior?”

But the point is, there’s a huge number of people in the exhausted majority.

They’re people who have political opinions, but they’re really troubled by this deep division.

But it’s the people in the extremes that drive politics. And there’s a lot of reasons for that. One of the reasons is the way the primary systems are working now. It’s very hard to run for office if you don’t agree down the line with your party.

You know, when I was in the legislature, we had pro-life Democrats and pro-choice Republicans. Nowadays, if you don’t hold a party line, you’re going to get primaried. And a small percentage of people come out for primary elections and they control who runs for the Congress and to a large extent, in the state legislatures, too.

Another big factor is that people’s behavior has deteriorated in general.

I don’t know if you’re familiar with Robert Putnam, but he wrote a famous book, “BOWLING ALONE: The Collapse and Revival of American Community,” and he’s got a new book called “THE UPSWING: How American Came Together a Century Ago and How We Can Do It Again.”

Putnam says a big problem in our society is that people are no longer part of civic organizations or churches, or bowling leagues, to use his example. When you’re part of civic groups, you’re interfacing with other people. Now people are bowling alone.

People are now more siloed in their own political groups that reinforce their own behavior. In the second book, The Upswing, Putnam talks about the Gilded Age when this was a problem, too.

This is a period when there were very wealthy people who controlled politics. It was kind of a dark period where there was a lot of us-versus-them kind of thinking. And then there was what he called the upswing that began right around 1900, up to about 1960 he says. And now we’re going downhill again.

And he talks about how we’ve become very self-centered in our own thinking and less willing to engage with other people. And part of it’s because people are not as engaged in social networks and situations where they might meet people with different political views.

We’re very siloed now and just mostly interact with people who think the same way we do.

Martha Engber: So you’re seeing a lot of reasons for the change in politics and civility, such as the Citizens United decision by the Supreme Court that allowed dark money to pour into campaigns, along w the rise of social media and the end of the Fairness doctrine that required broadcasters to give equal time to differing viewpoints.

Doug Teschner: I think there’s a lot of factors that go into it, and we do talk about this quite a bit in our book. But let’s talk about social media.

To me the problem is not social media per se as much as the algorithms of social media. The algorithms are really set up to keep people online as long as possible, and they do that by playing on our fears and we only see things that reinforce what we already believed.

When it comes to politics, people are being fed what reinforces your own views and confirmation bias. And a big factor in this is what Amanda Ripley, author of “HIGH CONFLICT: Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out,” calls the conflict entrepreneurs. These are people who are dividing us for their own power or their own financial benefit.

In contrast, we know from our Braver Angel workshops that you can get people in the room who have very different political views. In the right kind of a structured environment they can really talk to each other. They can listen to each other. They find out they have a lot more common ground than they thought.

But these conflict entrepreneurs are convincing us that we don’t have common ground, that those people are the enemy. And there’s foreign influence too, like the Russians, the Iranians, the Chinese who are also exploiting the social media algorithms. So there’s a lot of different factors that have gone into this for sure.

Martha Engber: According to Erica Chenowith, a political scientist at Harvard University, it takes 3.5% of a population to take part in protests to have legislators say, “We need to pay attention because this is a thing.” Some organizers believe that holds true for creating movements. If applied to America, 12 million people would need to get involved to create a common ground movement. Do you see that happening? And if so, how?

Doug Teschner: That’s a great question and these are conversations I’ve had with folks at Braver Angels and that I think we need to focus more on. We do well with the workshops and we have state and local alliances.

But the question is, how do you create a movement? A movement that says we need a better system. I mean, of course people are free to protest if they don’t like Donald Trump or if they didn’t like Joe Biden or they don’t like certain policies.

But I’d encourage people to think about how are we going to bring more people over to our side?

There’s a wonderful book by a woman named Leslie Crutchfield, “HOW CHANGE HAPPENS: Why Some Social Movements Succeed While Others Don’t,” which we refer to in our book. And she’s done a lot of research on movements and how they were created and what made them successful versus not successful.

For instance, she talks about the gun movement.

The NRA was much more focused on building a grassroots movement, whereas the people who were against guns were more trying to focus on Congress. Creating a grassroots movement is one of the six factors that she talks about.

So in Braver Angels, I think some of those six factors we’re doing well on. But I think if we want to lead a movement for change we need to step back and really look at it for ways that we can create more impact.

We need people to stand up and say:

“Wait a minute. This system is broken. It’s not working for any of us.”

One of the strengths of Braver Angels is we’ve always tried to have what we call red/blue balance to get the Republicans and Democrats at the table. And I know getting more conservatives is something we’ve really worked hard on. Not to say we can’t do better.

Martha Engber: As a person who is Red leaning, do you have an idea about why more, Blue leaning folks might be interested in coming together for this purpose and why conservative folks are a little leery of it?

Doug Teschner: I think there’s a lot of reasons. One of the problems has to do with what language you’re using. Words have become so politicized. “Dialogue,” for instance, tends to be a Blue leaning word.

It’s sad to see a lot of these words that used to have a normal meanings now being politicized. I think we have to look at how do you make joining Braver Angels more welcoming for people.

How do you do it? How do you invite other people to the table? I think people have to be curious. This is a little bit of what’s missing. Stephen Covey wrote a great book, “The Seven Habits of Highly Successful People.”

One of the seven habits is to listen to understand and not to reply, and we’ve kind of lost that.

Now people are quick with their responses and quick to reply and quick to offer another point of view. And it comes down to curiosity, being curious and humble, too. We could use a lot more humility in how we see other people.

I was out hiking on a mountain today and I wanted to get something to drink and to get a snack, and there was a guy with a MAGA hat in the store.

Oh gosh, I just wanted to go up to him and ask him some questions. “What do you like about Donald Trump? Tell me more.”

And when you do that, people feel acknowledged. If you do it with real curiosity.

I think my favorite chapter in our book is about values. What are your core values that are really important to you? When you identify some of your core values, I want you to think about people who voted for Donald Trump or Kamala Harris or whoever you don’t like. And what are you thinking about them? Is there any kind of a conflict between your values and what you’re thinking about people who have a different political orientation?

Because it’s going to be so important. To solve this problem, people have to dig within themselves to be more humble, be more curious, be more willing to listen, and I’m not saying I’m not great at it. I mean, I make mistakes too.

In the Braver Angels workshop, Depolarizing Within, we talk about better skills for disagreeing better. It starts with listening and resisting sharing your own opinion to acknowledge what the other person has to say.

Then share your own opinion. And then the person might actually listen to you if you show that you are listening to them.

We don’t really teach this in schools anymore.

I mean, as a nation, how we treat each other, you see more people giving people the finger on the highway and showing more aggressive behavior that was never considered acceptable twenty years ago. But somehow we sort of say, “Oh, well there we go.”

Change has to start with me. It has to start with my behavior and how I’m responding to other people.

That’s what we really emphasize in the book.

Martha Engber: One of the reasons I bought into Braver Angels and the Common Ground Movement in general is because I’ve learned that positive leads to positive and negative to negative. The Common Ground Movement promotes positive behavior, like being kind to others who don’t share your viewpoint while also trying to understand where they’re coming from.

But our electoral process nowadays seems to demand the opposite. Candidates are expected to do as their donors say, and tear down opponents in vicious personal attacks and show strength by refusing to compromise.

As former legislator, what enforceable actions can be taken to significantly change the process?

Doug Teschner: Well, the only way we’re going to change that is when people don’t vote for people who do negative campaigning. There’s always been negative campaigning, but it’s certainly been taken to a higher level.

Structural reforms regarding the primary process would be good, and you mentioned the money and politics is a problem, and rank choice voting (https://www.rcvresources.org/what-is-rcv/) is really interesting.

I just think it’s going to be very hard. To come up with structural reforms, we have to find a way to talk to each other better.

Right now, people are rewarded for bad behavior.

Martha Engber: Our leaders on both sides of the aisle seem to be adding fuel to the fire by passing along disinformation, personally attacking colleagues and even private citizens. They recommend ousting people for just doing their jobs.

I mean, even if we can get a critical mass of Americans to unite, how do we get our leaders to ditch negative messaging, which is really powerful and successful?

Doug Teschner: Now the most outrageous behavior gets the top headline. Donald Trump is a master of this. If you remember in 2015 when he was first running, people didn’t take him that seriously, but he like sucked up all the oxygen because of the way media sells stories.

I think it’s important for people to develop awareness of how negative messaging works, to understand conflict entrepreneurs and to understand the media environment and to say, “No!”

Especially when it’s on your side.

You know, this is one of the problems among citizens. When people reach out to people on the other side, they get pushback from their own side saying, “Why are you talking to those people?”

When enough people say, “This isn’t going to work for us,” things can change, but it’s not going to be easy. This is hard work. But it starts here and it moves out.

Martha Engber: Well, I recently did a post about how Americans happiness has consistently gone downhill for the past 30 years in a variety of factors (Happiness Report: Do You Feel Your Country Cares for You?), such as their feeling of economic security, sense of community, whether they trust our government institutions, as reported in the World Happiness Report published by the University of Oxford’s Wellbeing Research Center. The report lists our country as number 24 out of 143 countries. Do you think our leaders have been negligent in not paying attention to that fact?

And what do you think they could do immediately and differently to increase our happiness?

Doug Teschner: Our media and culture have messaged that happiness comes from six-figure financial success. But to attain happiness, you’ve got to go a lot deeper than that.

People need to have a balance that includes investing in relationships. One of my themes in life is to honor friendships.

I’ll try to pick up the phone and just call somebody I haven’t seen in a while. Little things like that. And I feel better after I do something like that.

I think happiness also applies to things like the middle class, which used to be bigger. Things have changed in ways that I think are potentially unhealthy and we have to figure out how do we get that back.

Our leadership just has dropped the ball on kind of understanding the factors that lead to happiness. Like economic security, but also things like fostering community and fostering trustworthiness in one another and institutions.

We have a chart in our book about force field analysis. It’s where you look at a problem and you say, “What are all the factors that are creating it? That are making it worse?” And then you look at what are all the factors that are pushing against it that could make it better? And you start to pick apart the factors to ask which ones could we influence? Which positive factors could we increase and which negative factors could we decrease to create a better future?

I think that’s a powerful way to look at it. We encourage you to read our book and say, “Okay, that’s something I could work on.” We’re not going to do it overnight. And it’s going to take a movement, and it’s going to take people saying enough is enough.

What I think about our book is that we want to give people hope.

Let’s talk about how do we improve our relationships? Then look one level further, which is how do we improve our own mental health? You know, a lot of people are just so anxious and upset about politics and how do you kind of step back and do some deep breathing and think about your own behavior and think about how you could feel better about yourself, and how that might contribute to better relationships and bettering our country.

Martha Engber: This leads to my last question, one I asked of your co-writer, Beth Mallow. The people who listen to or read this interview, and who joined Braver Angels and otherwise committed to civil discussion, don’t need to be convinced they have to take action to depolarize America. But how do we reach people who have no idea the Common Ground Movement even exists, or if those who have no interest in giving up their allegiance to a particular political party?

Doug Teschner: Well, I think we have to start by showing them that we care about them and that we’re willing to listen to them. Say, “Tell me why you vote the way you do. I’d like to know more.” You know, I see people making assumptions all the time about other people. I hear some of my liberal friends saying, “These people voted against their own self-interest.”

I said, “Well, how do you know that?”

At the end of the book, we give a long list of action steps. And I said, “Maybe the most effective thing you could do is find somebody you don’t know very well who has a different political view than you, and invite him to coffee.”

The last sentence of the book states:

“Changing the country, two people at a time.”

That’s a big ask. A lot of people have to do that to make change, but that’s where it has to start.

Martha Engber: Well, I really appreciate you taking the time out of your day to talk to me and to talk to other Americans about a brighter way forward at this time when it feels so dark.

Doug Teschner: I encourage people to go check out our Substack newsletter, Together Across Differences. That’s where we’re going to have more information about our book.

We’d love to invite other thought leaders to share in this journey with us. Please connect with us.

So please join our cause and have a lovely day.

Please subscribe below to join the Common Ground Movement!

If you found this post helpful, please share, comment, subscribe below and suggest topics you’d like to see addressed. You can also find Vigilant Positivity on Facebook and YouTube.

Positivity to the Rescue: 8 Uniting Americans Podcasts

America’s happiness has been on the slide for decades now, while polarization has gone up, up, up.

If you’re down about the state of politics in America, consider listening to these podcasts that focus on helping America depolarize by way of civil discussion.

Together they represent those fostering positivity, bridge-building and Common Ground Movement where Americans come together to find reunify by supporting one another.

Most are going shows, while others are single episodes. All are listed are on my resources page. If you have more, contact me and I’ll add them to the list.

How Do We Fix It?

In our new series, we’re reporting on the work and actions of Braver Angels — the nation’s largest cross-partisan volunteer-led movement to bridge the partisan divide.

We continue to ask questions about constructive, practical how to make the world a better place. Host and producer Richard Davies, sound designer Miranda Shafer and former co-host Jim Meigs have made more than 400 episodes. We feature smart, fun, spontaneous interviews with a remarkable range of guests. We welcome playful, constructive and unusual opinions.

Why America’s bitter politics are like a bad marriage

Episode 122 of the Speaking of Psychology podcast, produced by the American Psychological Association, features Eli Finkel, a professor in the psychology department and in the Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University.

How Do We Fix It?

“In our new series, we’re reporting on the work and actions of Braver Angels— the nation’s largest cross-partisan volunteer-led movement to bridge the partisan divide. We continue to ask questions about constructive, practical how to make the world a better place.”

Derate the Hate

“I am your host, Wilk Wilkinson. Your blue-collar sage, calming outrage and helping to navigate a world divided by FOG, & those who spread that fear, outrage, and grievance. Each week I’m sharing stories from my path & using the power of conversation and collaboration with great guests. Together, we chart a course toward understanding, bridging divides, and fostering a community where wisdom prevails over discord.”

The Common Ground Show

“2 Men from very different backgrounds dive into tough racial issues on “The Common Ground” podcast.”

Right, Left & Center

“KCRW’s weekly politics show where we take on the tough, divisive issues you’re afraid to talk about with your own family.”

Leaning Into Paradox: How We Can Block, Bridge & Build Our Democratic Future Together

(Single episode, Othering and Belonging Institute)

“We are facing a moment in history that requires us to develop new organizing modalities. We have to come together to block the threats we are facing to our democratic values, we need to bridge across differences to foster broad-based movements with the widest participation, and we have to build together the future we want to live within our communities.”

Want Proven Advice for Bridge-building? Be Humble and Curious

(Single episode, Interfaith America)

“Author and journalist Mónica Guzmán joins Eboo Patel to discuss strategies for bridging sociopolitical divides through cultivating curiosity and humility.”

Talkin’ Politics & Religion Without Killin’ Each Other

“Politics and Religion. We’re not supposed to talk about that, right? Wrong! We only say that nowadays because the loudest, most extreme voices have taken over the whole conversation. Well, we‘re taking some of that space back!”

Americans Reconnect: Talking Across the Political Divide

“This radio program stands out amidst a firehouse of media stories that not only seem to accept polarization as an inalterable truth but, at times, even stoke it. By contrast, this program focuses on solutions to polarization. The production team spent more than a year researching and reporting on how people can maintain relationships despite stark political differences, offering hope for a divided electorate that Americans can still come together.”


If you found this post helpful, please share, comment, subscribe below and suggest topics you’d like to see addressed. You can also find Vigilant Positivity on Facebook and YouTube.

Deliberative Democracy: The Anecdote to America’s Depolarization?

I recently heard a great program on KQED, my local NPR radio station: “Deliberative Democracy Puts Dialogue and Reason at Center of Decision Making.”

The program addresses an important question that’s growing more important by the day:

What can end America’s descent into increasingly deep polarization and turn us toward positivity?

The high school students who produced the show as part of KQED’s “Youth Takeover” believe it’s deliberative democracy.

The show features students Ryan Heshmati and Anaya Ertz, as well as:

  • Rahmin Sarabi, founder and director of The American Public Trust, which helps communities create common ground on tough public issues
  • Claudia Chwalisz, founder and CEO of DemocracyNext, “an international research & action institute focused on scaling high quality, empowered, and permanent citizens’ assemblies”
  • James Fishkin, a Stanford University professor of international communication and director of the Deliberative Democracy Lab “devoted to research about democracy and public opinion obtained through Deliberative Polling, an in-depth process that uses opinion polls and in-person discussions to see how people shift their viewpoints depending on what they learn.

Deliberative democracy

The way our current government typically works is that we listen to candidates who tell us what they stand for and what they’ll do if elected and vote for the person we most align with and hope all goes well.

But as we know, often our chosen officials only partially do what we want, don’t do anything at all, or worse, actively work against what seems best for all of us.

Deliberative democracy is the idea that citizens like you and I get to help decide how problems get solved.

The process

Here are the steps in a process that could be implemented at the local, state or federal level:

  • Problem selection: Clearly define a public problem or policy issue and ensure it’s framed to allow a wide range of perspectives and potential solutions.
  • Participant selection: Use a random, stratified selection process to ensure the group is broadly representative of the population, maybe through the use of a “civic lottery” to avoid bias and include underrepresented groups.
  • Information sharing and learning: Provide people with balanced and vetted information on an issue that includes expert opinions and diverse perspectives while offering relevant evidence and resources to inform the deliberation.
  • Deliberate: Participants deliberate using a structured format overseen by trained moderators with the goal of actively listening to one another and exchange ideas.
  • Make decisions and recommendations: Participants aim for consensus-based decisions that are transparent and accountable and lead to recommendations that are then shared with the public.
  • Implement and evaluate: The recommendations are not just acted upon, but are monitored and evaluated to see if they rectify the problem.
  • Continual evaluation: The deliberative process is evaluated and improved on an ongoing basis.

The benefits and criticisms

Benefits

According to “Could deliberative democracy depolarize America? Stanford scholars think so,” Fishkin and Larry Diamond, a Stanford political science and sociology professor, talk about an experiment they did in collaboration with Helena, a non-partisan institution devoted to identifying and solving societal problems:

“Before participants took part in America in One Room, they were asked to rate their support (or opposition) for some 49 policy proposals they would be discussing. The researchers found extreme partisan-based polarization between Democrats and Republicans on 26 of the proposals. But after a weekend of deliberation, the two parties moved closer on 22 out of the 26 proposals and in 19 of those, movements were significant, Fishkin and Diamond in a paper presented at the Sept. 2020 meetings of the American Political Science Association.”

Criticisms

Some critics argue that certain segments of the population would either automatically exclude themselves from such participation, if offered, or be unable to openly discuss some issues, much less come to common ground. These groups include religious fundamentalists and those who engage in “identity politics,” where their self-worth is tied to their political party.

Others feel that when any group gets together, imbalances between participants due to age, race, gender, class or other factors may mean the results skew toward those who exert power, rather than lead to the best solution.

Examples of deliberative democracy

Some months ago I wrote about participating in a Braver Angels workshop in which I, along with a balanced group of red and blue citizens, came up with over a dozen recommendations to solve our broken immigration system (“Immigration: 14 Remedies Developed by Red/Blue Voters”). Our findings will be compiled with the results from dozens of other workshops held around the country and will be formally submitted to Congress in 2027.

While that experience was somewhat different than the above process, in that the workshops included those who chose to be there, rather than those chosen randomly, the participants were balanced between members of different political parties and the discussion included information, discussion, deliberation and recommendations.

Examples of other deliberative democracy initiatives include:

  • Citizen Assemblies in the UK
  • Planning Cells in Germany
  • Participatory Budgeting in Brazil
  • Citizens Initiatives Reviews in the US and Switzerland
  • and Citizen Councils in Belgium

In the US, the Citizens Initiative Review has been adopted in Colorado, Oregon and Massachusetts.

Healthy Democracy lists the types of projects citizens have helped resolve.

My question for you

What do you think about employing deliberative democracy in America? Would you be willing to participate?

If you found this post helpful, please share, comment, subscribe below and suggest topics you’d like to see addressed. You can also find Vigilant Positivity on Facebook.